Actually?

Which self?

The self you had been if you had been two years previous, nearly out of diapers?

The self you had been if you had been screaming with the followers on the large sport?

The self you had been after an extended evening?

How about this: Change into the self you’d be proud to be. Hang around with folks and concepts that assist you to grow to be that self. Act like that self each likelihood you get.